The last three mornings I have become aware of how grateful
I am. Some prayers have been answered
and felt like I wanted to shout to the world NEVER give up on an idea, a need
or a desire. Miracles happen all of the time.
The last three or four things that have happened sort of went like this:
1. I identified that something was wrong: (because I was tired,
and sarcastic and feeling “stressed”)
2. Took the time the figure out exactly what it was that was
bothering me. (most of the time what is bothering me is not really the issue:
usually behind frustration and anger is fear, sadness, hurt, helplessness and
hopelessness)
3. I realized that I had already tired to fix or address
this problem both myself and with the help of others and we all felt helpless
to fix it. (However knowing that others felt the same way validated that the
problem / issue / challenge was real and legitimate; that feedback is usually
needed because many problems are just products of our perceptions)
4. Took the problem up the ladder to the highest point of
conversation. ((universe, spirit, God, higher power) and said HELP: I need
wisdom direction and guidance in how to address, manage, fix or adapt to this. (You notice I didn’t just say fix this,
because often solutions require a change in our thinking to accept what can not
be change)
5. Then this is the most important step: I let it go
completely, as if I were simply going to have to accept things as they were:
being willing for EITHER / OR. I can be
happy if it changes or if it does not)
6. Once a problem is given to the higher power, it IS taken
care of. There is no need to beg or plead or be repetitive. It’s ok to say periodically, “It certainly
would be nice if…..” But it is more important to live life fully in the present
moment without regard to the past or the future. ALL THINGS ARE EXACTLY AS THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO
BE!
7. Now this is the truly fun part of the process: Being impressed with the creativity and
timing of the solution. The best
solutions show up when you least expect them and in packages that totally surprise
you. And saying wow is always
appropriate!
8. Saying thank you, and smiling and dancing and singing and
sharing the miracle with others to encourage those who are at step one. (Thats
what I am doing today)
9. Helping someone, being patient with someone, defending someone
and reaching out a hand to someone who is tired and sarcastic and
frustrated. Because:
TOGETHER ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!
These are our thoughts feelings and experiences. We accept responsibility for them. We understand your journey may be different. We honor and respect that. Wishing you effortless joy. Eloise and Jake